March 2012

Train Like a Mother: Lucky Running Charms

Wouldn’t it be ironic if eating Lucky Charms before a race was my lucky charm? Sadly, it’s not. I don’t believe in purple marshmallows–or leprechauns.

So we’re entering the final countdown to Train Like a Mother: How to Get Across Any Finish Line – and Not Lose Your Family, Job, or Sanity. Let’s say we’re at Mile 22 of a marathon. Which is when, conveniently for this post, you might call on the power of a lucky charm to get you across the finish line. Hopefully these charms we list below will still be lucky, even after they receive the unhappy news that there was no room for their magical powers in the (hopefully still magical) orange book.

 Take It from a Mother: Do you have a lucky running charm?

“My wild red hat. It’s knit, multicolored, has strings to my chest, and pom-poms.”
—Courtney (took a wrong turn in her first race and ran 10K instead of the 5K for which she registered)

“Pink shorts.”
—Erin (started running track in high school, where the pink shorts made their debut)

“I like to wear a pair of earrings my husband gave me.”
—Keri (entertains herself during long runs by texting people)

“Moving Comfort Fiona bra. I will not run without it.”
—Mary-Glen (works on speed by running with a fast neighbor)

TLAM: it’s magically delicious.

“I have a running girl necklace I like to wear.”
—Phyllis (started running to cope with grief after her mom passed away)

“Prayer.  I can’t run without God.”
—Randi (loves the excitement and energy of races)

“Jewelry that represents various members of my family.”
—Sarah (treats hip pain with Active Release Technique)

“No lucky charms for me.”
—Wendy (thinking about a race makes her crave eggs and toast)

“For my last two half-marathons, I’ve worn a necklace with my kids’ birth charms and names on it.”
—Lesley (has to wear her Garmin on race day, “I would probably go out way too fast if I didn’t”)

“Always left shoe on first!”
—Melissa (worst race experience: her quads locking up during her second marathon in a week)

“I have a bracelet that all the moms in the group got from our coach before our first race. I wear that every time I run.”
—Jennifer (felt like a “real” runner when 1) she started thinking about running all the time and 2) she got her first bloody toe.)

“Balega socks.”
—Gemma (favorite pre-run meal: an English muffin, lots of water, and a handful of chocolate chips)

“I put a guardian angel pin my mom gave me onto my race bib.”
—Erica (came very close to throwing up at her last 10K. “I haven’t felt that nauseated since I was pregnant with my twins!”)

“I like wearing my son’s athletics t-shirts. He’s the strongest person I know.”
—Neita (motivates herself by reading running blogs)

“My son’s baby washcloth.”
—Maria (proudest running moment: a 7-mile run with a new group of friends. “I had never run more than 4 miles prior to that day. They were all so encouraging that it really motivated me to finish”)

“My white TNT hat. I wear a white hat to honor the great Joan Benoit Samuelson.”
—Lois (dubs the foam roller her best friend. “I’m a massage therapist, but no one massages me.”)

“I lost my first baby at 32 weeks when I had cancer, so I wear her footprints on my waist. When it gets hard, I look down and run the miles for her little feet that will never get to run.”
—Rebecca (proudest running moment was this year when she ran a half-marathon. “Eight years ago, I couldn’t walk, my mom bathed me, and my sister carried me to the bathroom. And this year I ran a freakin’ half-marathon!”)

 Now we’re taking it to you mothers: Do you have a charm de lucky?

 

Tell Me Tuesday: Managing the Mental Side of a Long Run

Getting from Point A to distant Point B is a mind game

This past weekend was one of the most challenging workouts of the entire Train Like a Mother: How to Get Across Any Finish Line – and Not Lose Your Family, Job, or Sanity Marathon: Own It plan, which I’m following for the Boston Marathon: 17 miles with 12 at race pace. I’d been fretting about it for weeks, especially since I had to tackle it the morning after flying more than halfway across the country. (A ham sandwich on an airplane and a bag of Sunny Seeds does not good carb-loading make.) Yet all my concerns were for naught: I nailed it! I was aiming for averaging 9:10-minute miles. Instead, somehow, I cranked out miles ranging from 8:38-8:53, with a lone 9:00 in there. I was jubilant and triumphant; I had gone from worrier to warrior. Woo-hoo!

Replaying the run in my head afterward, I realized it was a prime example of mind over matter. I’d managed the run in my head, so my body could handle it. Here are a few of my secrets for success on a long run:

Enjoy the planning. Attending to the details of an event—whether a wedding, child’s birthday party, school auction, or long run—can either be daunting and draining, or it can add to the festivities. Maybe I’m an oddball, but I love mulling over possible routes for runs. This weekend, for example, I ran a familiar 12-mile loop, but tacked on a scenic 5 miles in the middle, when I knew I’d need an emotional boost. Use your long runs as a way to explore parts of town you don’t usually get to on your daily jaunts, or tack together a few loops that take you by the homes of friends who can stash water bottles in their front yard for you. Make it an adventure instead of a chore.

Chunk it up. Every time I thought about having to run race pace for “almost a half-marathon,” I got a bit queasy. Once I set off, I mentally divided the run into segments: 2 miles of warm-up. Up to Mile 4, when I could walk to eat a Roctane  and drink some nuun from my Amphipod. To Mile 6, when I’d be one-third done with the race pace miles. To Mile 8 for another energy gel. To Mile 9.6, where I could turn around on the scenic, riverside loop I’d added….you get the idea. The few times I mentally lifted my head to stare down the entire 12 miles, let alone the whole 17, I could feel my pace drop and my legs turn leaden. Instead, I stayed in the moment, focusing on short-term goals.

My constant companion on long runs


Fuel properly.
This might seem like a physical detail, but when your brain screams, “Stop!” “Slow down!” “This hurts!” “Walk, you moron!”  what it’s really telling you is, “I’m starved of glycogen, the stuff that makes me work.” By ingesting about 100 sugary calories every 45 minutes or so, your brain will stay on a more even, rational keel. On my 17-miler, I sucked down a gel at Miles 4, 8, 12, and even 15: It was a gradual, but steady, climb from Mile 14 to 16, and I wanted to stay strong to the finish.

Give yourself an out. When my mile splits kept staying about 20 seconds faster than I’d planned, I reminded myself I had that “cushion” of time to fall back on. I also told myself I could bail on the final few race-pace miles if I burned out. “Ten miles of 8:50s are basically as demanding as 12 miles of 9:10s,” I rationalized. Yet, in a deeper, more rational part of my brain, I knew I’d never allow myself to cash in that option, to fall short of the required work. Simply telling myself I could kept me pushing.

Recruit a friend. I didn’t employ this strategy this weekend, but I’ve run with friends a bunch of times during this training cycle. I used to think I had to have a friend run the whole distance with me, but my pal Molly made me realize having a friend for part of the run is often better than none. Focusing more on 10Ks this winter, Molly’s not up for long distances, so I’ll run, say, 5 miles, then meet her for 10. Or I’ll pick her up for the first half of a run, then finish up solo.

Now it’s your turn: How do you tame the mental monkeys when you’re running long?

Anatomy of a Morning Run

Not my bed, my husband or my clock. But love the idea.

4:45: Up to pee. Dang it that it’s less than an hour until 5:30. Should I turn off the alarm? Uh-uh. Should I just go now? Definitely not.

5:30: Slam alarm.

5:35: No, no, no.

5:40: Really no. When else can I run today? After school drop-off? Lunch? Before school pick-up? Should I just skip it? I should just skip it. But I’m awake. Mostly. So if I skip it, I’ll just lie here and dwell on the fact that I’m not running.

5:45: Fine. Take your own stupid advice: don’t think, just go. Pee again, clothes on, shoes on, banana down the hatch, gloves and hat on.

5:47: O.k. this isn’t so bad. Not as cold out as I thought it was.

5:52: Wait, it’s only been five minutes?

5:54: See Freakshow Man wearing, among other odd things, snowpants on park path. We’re both facing the same direction. Pretend like I don’t see him.

5:56: Execute poor farmer’s blow. Spot lines of snot all over my black tights and gloves.

5:57: Only ten minutes?

5:59: Is the mud on this path clinging to the soles of my shoes? Because my legs feel really heavy.

6:01: Opt for cement path. It wasn’t the mud.

6:02: I will not look at my watch until I reach that turn. I will not look at my watch until I reach that turn.

6:03: Look at watch.

6:04:40: Reach turn.

6:07: Halfway! I’m halfway done! All downhill from here!

6:08: Not really. Holy hill. I will not walk. I will not walk. I’d be faster walking, but I will not walk.

6:08:45: Did you hear me? I will not walk.

6:09: Legs and lungs exhale as we all reach level ground.

6:09:10: Sweet, sweet downhill. Oh, how I love you downhill. Oh, how I love you running.

6:10: Sun starts to peak up over the trees. Sky is a blend of pink and orange and lovely. Oh, how I love you sun and sky.

6:12: Pass Freakshow Man face to face. He smiles kindly and says, “Haven’t seen you in a while out here.” Oh, how I love you Freakshow Man. And I’m sorry I called you that.

6:15: Must pass eight parked cars on gradual uphill before I can walk.

6:16: Pass seventh parked car.

6:16:01: Close enough. Walk.

6:20: Seven minutes left is nothing. It’s just 7/40th’s. And no, I can’t reduce that fraction any more.

6:19: I will run until I get three mailboxes away from my own.

6:20: I will run until I get two mailboxes away from my own.

6:21: Three mailboxes.

6:23: Two mailboxes.

6:24: Is the pace I’m running now even a speed?

6:25: Five mailboxes.

6:27: Make it to two mailboxes. Victory.

6:28: Stretch calves on front step: one minute on each leg. Take deep breaths as my muscles lengthen and my euphoria grows. Forty minutes in the can for my legs, lungs and spirit. Forty minutes that I’ll never regret.

6:30: Walk in the door. Answer “Great!”—and mean it—when Grant asks me how my run was.

Sound familiar? What timeline tidbit of your own comes from a recent run? 

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